Notes from My Lessons Last Week

As I work toward my goals and continue improving my riding, I find it sometimes helps to seriously focus on what I learned during my lessons. Taking the time to write down the important concepts helps even more! Here are a few notes from my lessons this past week.

I find it important to write down notes from my lessons as well as my daily, monthly and yearly goals.

hope others can learn something too (or remember to focus on something you tend to overlook). If someone out there has some additional pointers or notes please comment!

Cadence

Allow the horse transition time, so in going from canter to trot think – one, two, three – trot (or three beats) same for trot to walk, etc.

Transitions should look and feel very smooth, never abrupt. Count out loud the cadence when trotting, walking or cantering to help focus and relax me and my horse. So that would be a cadence of one beat at the walk, two at the trot and three at canter.

Practice cantering ten strides, then transition to trot for six beats then canter again for ten strides, and so on all in a smooth and effortless manner. Be ever so light on the rein and leg with your requests. Think finely tuned movements, no jarring of the horse, just a whisper.

Leg Yields

Leg yields to the wall. Use your inside leg (heel) and outer rein to bring and keep the horse to and on the outside wall. The horse should move willingly away from your inside leg while the rein helps keep her straight.

Circles

Practice coming into a tight circle, then expanding to a larger one, filling the space, using the heel of your inside leg and outer rein. Practice having the horse turn in on the center line from a large circle, gracefully.

When engaged in circles make sure they are the circle is always the same size (unless you are intentionally bringing them in or out). Keep the same circle shape when changing direction, too. When you ask to move up and the horse doesn’t respond, use two quick movements with both heels to get them to listen and keep doing it until they respond.

The Three Key Elements to Jumping Courses Successfully

The three most important things to consider when jumping a course are track, pace and balance. In order to perfect your track, look at your fence early. Most riders wait until it’s too late. Trying to overcome the wrong track is difficult at best, you can correct for pace and balance pretty fast, but fixing your track quickly is challenging and without the right track the horse will be off balance and not able to perform optimally going over the fence.

You should have an even pace going to a fence and in between fences. Make sure that your stride distance is equal in between the fences, too. So if you want to achieve four strides between the fences, they should be four equal strides.

Figure it Out

If you get your distance wrong twice in a row (or more) then figure out what the problem is and fix it. Same with uneven strides between fences, fix it by going in with the right pace from the start or correct it immediately after the first fence. Do not wait to adjust it at the last fence. You want the horse concentrating on the jump at that point, don’t distract her.

In trying to figure out the problem, ask yourself, did I have the right pace, track, point of take off, equal stride distances, etc.? Where was I off? You should know. Then fix it.

Worth reiterating, correct where you are off early, not at the jump. You need to let the horse “be” at this point. Your conversation with the horse must be a whisper when approaching the fence. If she is on the wrong lead then so be it, leave it and let her jump the fence as is. Horses are fine jumping on the wrong lead or in cross canter. More important is fixing the problem immediately after the fence, especially before the next turn. Just focus on the jump and getting her to land on the correct lead over the fence.

Hands “On” at All Times

Keep your hands in constant contact with the bit until you are through riding. They should not be too tight but taunt enough to feel tension. Keep the contact elastic especially through the elbows. Only when you are done should you relax your reins. When in forward motion give up the rein (towards the horses head) about four to six inches at each stride whether walking, trotting or cantering.

It is important to keep an even pace before AND after the jump…

After the Jump

When moving towards a jump (and after a jump) your pace should be smooth and consistent. Don’t go into half seat as it can cause the horse to increase speed. You want to keep them in a relaxed, collected, frame with their pole up. Causing them to speed up can lead them to pull their head down and forward. This is not optimal for balance for the rider.

Keep the pace smooth and stay in your seat in a relaxed manner. If you land hard over the fence when sitting back in your seat it can accomplish the same thing as going into half seat, i.e. it will cause the horse to move faster. With some horses landing hard after a fence tenses the horse to the point where she’s harder to control, i.e. slow down.

Homework

Practice figure eights over a pole and look soon when switching leads back towards the pole. Practice circle work.

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My Progress While J is Away

Jaliska being away has unintentionally brought with it several new opportunities.

Happy to look at the bright side…

First, I have been able to focus more on my business since I’m not riding as much during the week. This is a really good thing since I’m the boss and primary source in identifying and securing new revenue. Revenue is important if only that it is the sole means of my being able to continue my Quest and, yes, to pay my employees, feed my kids, cover the bills, etc.

Second, now that I’m the full time parent during the week, I would not have been able to ride Jaliska every morning as I previously had since I have to get both kids on the bus. Therefore, J being in Aiken training has actually been a blessing as I would have felt terribly guilty about not being able to ride her often, or would have done so during the day which would have affected my company’s bottom line and ultimately mine. Once summer hits, Jaliska will be back and I will be able to ride her everyday once again!

Third, I have to say I’m really enjoying riding more experienced horses. This combination, to my delight, has taken me to a whole new level of riding ability. OK, I know that when you are starting at the bottom, as I have, this “new level” isn’t very high; however, for me personally, it has been substantial, if only incremental.

Happily, I feel that my unplanned plan seems to be working out really well. So while Jaliska is learning and improving, so am I.

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Is My Quest Too Grand?

My goal is one that many equestrians, even those with significant formal training, wouldn’t dare contemplate, let alone seriously consider, but for some uncanny reason the desire to compete in a Grand Prix show jumping competition, hooked me, throwing all common sense and rational to the wind.

I am the first to admit that my dream is insane
but I sure am enjoying “the ride.”

I admit that I have been outright laughed at, scoffed at and told point-blank that, “Yes, you could do it once, but then you would be dead,” (the latter a response to my request to jump “just one” five foot fence), and this all coming from my trainers, no less.

I have since come to realize why my Quest prompted such strong reactions. The sport of competitive show jumping, especially at the Grand Prix level, is one of the most dangerous, rigorous, expensive, and physically and mentally demanding of any individual sport known to mankind. 
What am I, a middle-aged, middle-class, single, mother-of-two, thinking to entertain such an insane objective?
Perhaps I wasn’t.
In retrospect, I believe that what it boiled down to was, that being a complete beginner at the time (and pretty much still to this day), I just didn’t know any better.
So nearly a year and a half later, having learned just how daunting and ridiculous the goal of my competing in a Grand Prix really is, what’s my excuse today?
After much soul searching and investigation, I think that Dr. Gregory Bern’s research, outlined in his book “Satisfaction: The Science of Finding True Fulfillment,” sums it up. He concluded that “humans need a challenge –a REALLY DIFFICULT CHALLENGE – to reach a brain state that creates the feeling of complete happiness.” Well, I can personally attest that I am never quite as happy as I am when jumping fences.
So maybe that’s it, or perhaps I will never really be quite sure of the answer. All I know is that after watching the Grand Prix competition at the 2010 Fidelity Classic Horse Show, I decided that I wanted to do “that,” too. Since then I have been off and running in my Quest and loving every minute of it. For what I have found is that the fun is in the getting there, it’s the journey, it’s the “ride.”
Quest for the Prix is dedicated to my two children, Nicole (10) and Bobby (13), and to my horse KEC Jaliska (7).
Anything is possible, if you believe.
Do you think my Quest is too grand? Post your comments at www.questfortheprix.com ,Facebook or Twitter.

Contact: victoria@questfortheprix.com

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Through the Kindness of Others

While Jaliska is making progress while being trained in Aiken by Adrienne, I have been fortunate enough to be able to continue my Quest with my own training.

My #1 trainer waived Jaliska’s monthly board while Jaliska is away in Aiken, as he was able to fill her stall with another boarder. This is a huge help, for to say the horse business (from leasing, to owning, to boarding, to training, to shoeing and showing and of course not to forget the biweekly “lessoning,”) is expensive is an UNDERSTATEMENT at best! Throw in a daughter who rides, too and…. yikes.

Since I don’t have to pay board, I’m able to continue with my lesson program. Thanks #1 trainer!

Thanks to good people, I can continue to train while Jaliska is away.

Second, a friend at my barn has been letting me ride her horse a few times a week. It’s so great to have a horse to ride while Jaliska is away. I just can’t thank her enough, but I will try.

Thanks Mindy! You’re the best!

Third, my trainer in Aiken is letting me use one of her horses to ride in dressage lessons at her facility here in MA.

Thanks Adrienne!!

How lucky am I to have such great people in my life? I would say that I’m extremely lucky and blessed. Thanks everyone for helping me work toward my goals and providing constant encouragement.

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It’s All About the Horse Time

Riding is my best mood enhancer. Me on Diamond’s Daylight, last summer.

Riding is the best therapy that I can think of (albeit not the cheapest) for I can be in the worst mood and after only few minutes on a horse I feel like a different person.

I remember how I used to (and still do sometimes) get so uptight when I first began training. One day, upon hearing me complain for the umpteenth time about how “awful I was at this,” or ”well that didn’t go as planned,” or “when will I ever learn how to do this right,” my best riding buddy, Katrina, gently pointed out that there is no such thing as bad ‘horse time.’

Fast-forward to today.

I found myself, once again, hyper-focused on learning how to do “this” exactly right. In this case the “this” was a certain dressage technique. (Full disclosure, all dressage techniques, and dressage in general for that matter, are new to me.) The point is that when I was done with my lesson and ultimately stopped thinking for a moment, I was suddenly overcome by a feeling of sheer happiness. It took over my body, like some alien being and the magnitude of it was almost overwhelming. Without realizing it, I was not just smiling, I was beaming and a calm, peacefulness filled my soul.

Hmmm, I thought to myself, this is what it’s all about, not jumping a Prix, or having perfect form, or winning a competition, but the pure joy that comes from “horse time.”

So I finally get it; this is what my good friend was talking about. I must simply enjoy the time and everything else is, well, just details.

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A Little Slice of Heaven in Aiken

I am a big believer in what is “meant to be, will be” and that “things always work out for the best.” So even though I stated in my December post that “all I want for Christmas is for Jaliska to go to Florida,” I really did not understand the full implications of that wish.

The true meaning of my wish was for Jaliska (J) to be professionally trained, full-time in a warm outdoor setting for the winter, and that is exactly what she ended up getting. The fact that she’s going to South Carolina instead of Florida is beside the point!

Checkout this outdoor riding area!

The farm where Jaliska is staying in Aiken, SC is absolutely spectacular. (Visit www.facebook.com/questfortheprix to see more photos of Aiken, SC.) It has sprawling fields, outdoor rings, and a large grassy jumping area, all abutting woods and trails. The farm is in such a rural setting that you drive through miles of cotton fields to get there; it’s like you have checked out from civilization altogether, the only reminder, the buzz of an occasional plane overhead (and of course the state-of-the-art stables). All this and still only 25 minutes from down town Aiken.

The climate is so mild that J is in turnout around the clock with the exception of coming in to eat her grain, and to be tacked and groomed. She is treated like a princess and six days a week she gets focused, high quality training in the morning and is taken for a hack around the property in the afternoon. What a life!

I am so happy that I made the trip to Aiken to visit Jaliska. It more than confirmed the fact that I made the right decision, and while I was there, I got to explore the charm of the city and interact with its residents. I was just delighted all around with the setting and hospitality. I mean really, how many high-end steak houses will let you dine in your boots and chaps? Not an issue in Aiken, “of course you can, this is a horse town” the owner declared!

I just loved it.

With J getting the royal treatment in Aiken, I can now focus exclusively on my own training, with the goal of taking it to the next level. I am hoping that when J comes back I can meet her somewhere in the middle. So, even though I was initially disappointed that J didn’t go to Wellington to train, I believe she ultimately ended up in the right place. What’s meant to be, will be.

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Time Well Spent

Precious time spent with my daughter in Aiken.

My life has taken some really interesting, and unexpected, turns since beginning my Quest.

Take, for instance, the fact that I ended up on a riding holiday in Aiken, SC, with my daughter recently.

Now, never would I have dreamed that I would be going to Aiken last week, or any other time for that matter, but that’s exactly where I ended up.

This all came about by what can only be described as a somewhat bizarre series of events all of which were triggered by my posting a “Help Wanted” ad in the local paper, the specific details of which I have decided I will leave to my book.

In any event, due to this posting, Aiken, SC is exactly where I went, and I am so glad that I did.

Let me explain.

My daughter turns eleven next month and in doing the math I calculate that I have only about six years left with her before she’s off to college. In all reality she will most likely “check out” even sooner once she starts high school.

Now this may seem like a long time but I have learned in my “old-age” that these years will be gone in what feels like an instant.

So to have five glorious, fun-filled, sun-filled days of riding and cavorting about with just the two of us – is a gift.

Thank you, Quest.

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